Maternity leave has been dreamy. I’ll be real, I wasn’t sure how it was going to go down. I have had a job non-stop for the last 15 years and I’m not exactly what you’d label an “idle” person. Sure, babies are a sizable amount of work but they also sleep. Like, often. What would I do with all of the newborn nap time? Sleep? Meh. I’m not much of a napper. Watch Bravo TV until my eyes bleed? Sure, I’ve done that here and there. Could newborn nap time have more purpose? This question is still a bit of a mystery as I try to find the balance between “resting” and serving others with this insane gift of spare time. I am #blessed to be off work until January 11. Lots more strolling and contemplating to be had.
One big benefit to this chunk of baby-bonding time is coupled with the fact that my husband’s job is extremely flexible so he can sometimes join our strolls, creating impromptu mid-day dates.
Background: By nature, I desire stability while Tyler has always been more comfortable as a risk-taker. Becoming a real estate broker was pretty risky and it took a lot of faith and prayer for me to get 100% on board. Had I known it would be such an ideal fit for Tyler in every which way, I wouldn’t have dragged my feet. And had I thought about what it would mean for his ability to spend so much time with me and Adeline, I would have ordered his first set of business cards years ago.
Today was one of those flexible days for Tyler so he joined us for a little stroll around University Village. Once we had our window shopping fill, we decided to grab some dinner down the street at Mamma Melina.
When it comes to happy hour seating, Mamma Melina has two options – 1. the bar area (which technically doesn’t allow minors, no matter how cute – see above) and 2. two couch seats which both happened to be occupied. The rest of the restaurant was empty (apparently, no one else eats dinner at 3:52pm… wutt?) so the bartender/waitress went out of her way to get us happy hour priced seating in the main dining area. Her words: “I refuse to turn you away – we’ll make it work for you three. You deserve this.” What a lovely way to be greeted as new parents! HERO TREATMENT! I will take it.
There was plenty of room to park our stroller right next to our table. Oh, and free street parking plus a free 3-hour lot underneath the restaurant. Quality, substantial, well priced happy hour food plus adult beverages running from 3-6pm (longer on Tuesdays and Thursdays). The best part of having a little impromptu date night with your newborn at Mamma Melina? Hands down – the art that’s uniquely displayed on the ceiling! Perfect for newborn gazing from a reclined stroller.
Side note: Tyler drew a fascinating parallel between a) newborns strapped into car seats which are snapped into strollers and b) old men snoozing in La-Z-Boy recliners on casters. Next risky business venture? Possibly.
Mamma Melina offered us a place loud enough to belly laugh and not get starred at but quiet enough to hear each other the first time (a delicate balance for a date night choice). While Addie snoozed, we reminisced about our teenage years with braces (I dutifully wore my rubber bands, he did not), what it will be like to travel to Nashville in October with a baby (he will masterfully pack and prepare our gear, I will bring a boatload of snacks), and how good prosciutto is on pizza (duh).